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Kmd4390:
ok, caenus said move on so I was taking his advice.
if you want to talk about things, I will do so as long as it is in a calm manner and if you want to say what you are upset about specifically, I will listen and do my best to correct it.
1) ok sorry I misunderstood.
2) I'd rather not discuss this. I do have a sexual history but have gotten into trouble for talking about it before so I'd rather not.
3) I'll listen to any "advice" you want to give.
Also, I want to make sure you know I am trying to cooperate rather than argue with you or anything like that.
I need to restart my computer so I will be back in about 20 minutes.
ok I am back and my computer is running a lot faster now.
contingencyplan:
Trust me, I'm calm, so don't worry about that. You'd have to push me really hard to see me when I'm not calm. You're nowhere close. Just because I'm being an asshole, by choice, doesn't mean that I'm not saying what I say as specifically as I can, and as calmly as I can.
2) That's fine, and I'm not expecting you to (apologies if this wasn't clear). I'm sorry to hear you've gotten in trouble for talking about something as important and necessary as sex; that's something that puzzles me about today's culture as well - we view sex as so vital and important and sacred that we can't talk about it, and must instead treat it as the dirty little secret that everybody does but nobody acknowledges or admits to. At any rate, my goal isn't to force you to give a blow-by-blow of your sex life, or to get you in trouble; rather, I want to start / feed an internal dialog for yourself, so that you know why you're making the choices you are. You strike me as someone who hasn't given a lot of real, honest thought to it - you think you have, but have you really?
3) That's about it for advice right now - the reaction thing, the shitposting, and the internal dialog about run the gamut so far. I'll point out other stuff as we go along, though, don't worry. :)
And don't worry, you're showing a lot of improvement already. You'll fit in well, methinks. :)
Kmd4390:
2)I'll keep that in mind
So is it safe to say we can put this behind us?
contingencyplan:
--- Quote from: Kmd4390 on May 03, 2008, 11:03:21 pm ---:quagmire:
Please don't quote this LMAO. :rofl:
So is it safe to say we can put this behind us?
--- End quote ---
Well, I don't like the phrase "put it behind us" - if you go back to your old shitposting ways then this will all be for naught. But if you mean stop discussing it, and just continue on keeping the lessons in mind, then sure. :)
Kmd4390:
ok, that sounds right.
If anything I post looks like what you define as a shitpost, let me know and I will remove it immediately.
I'm gonna go to bed now.
I'll be back tomorrow
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